
My favorite lake here in Bavaria shows amazing reflections in the water today. I took this photo with my iPhone only at around 5 P.M, no filter needed, only pure beauty. I could stare at these mirror-like reflections for hours and still wonder what did I do in my life that I deserve to see this.
My heart is filled with warmth.I couldn’t help but to reflect into my past life, realizing that from last year—living here in Germany is actually one of my ( and my family’s ) dream that came true!
“Remember, life is an echo. It always gets back to you. So give goodness.”
Today, I feel so grateful. I want to be grateful because I have many reasons to be thankful for. I can’t help but to appreciate goodness in life.
As we make a pit-stop from cycling and gaze at this view from the lake today, my heart is grateful that I had the chance to see this place, with all these myriad of beautiful nature, right at my doorstep.
I still remember that at this same time last year (May 2016), we squeezed our lives in 2 cargo boxes , my travelling hand carry bags are tightly packed and ready to leave Kuwait, with 3 luggage on tow and an active toddler on a 20+ hours flight, alone,jet lagged, and yet so excited to cross time zones for a life changing move. From the time our plane landed at Schiphol in the Netherlands and the 6- hour train ride going to Bavaria, my mind can’t rest until I step on to our new home. I was truthfully exhausted,at same time, I can’t wait to see our new place, our neighborhood and our new home, where we begin a new chapter in our lives.
Everyone dream of becoming rich, well, maybe not all in material terms. For me, I didn’t dare of dreaming about big houses, high-end cars or a grand lifestyle, let alone living in a culture different from where I was born with. I love to travel but I don’t have the luxury for it. The only reason I go abroad was for work purposes. If you must know, so many Filipinos get out of the country mainly for work, especially women and mothers. Leaving your baby across the miles is a huge pain in the heart of any parent, a sacrifice as others call it. A big population of the OFW’s ( Overseas Contract Worker) are women, with small kids & families left behind in Philippines.They work under contract for years and years to earn money and support their families back home.
Back then, I was one of them .
“Almost all Expatriates along with their families aspire of a better life in another country. Some move because there is a job opportunity, some with a lucky chance to immigrate naturally. If you got the opportunity, both for a better future and a high quality of living then life abroad becomes bearable…and enjoyable”

“The grass is always greener on the other side (of the fence)…”
Staring at the clear waters with the reflections of a blue skies, I still couldn’t believe that I am actually living in here in Germany. Imagine, for the past months, I had my first taste of Summer, Fall, Winter and Spring for the very first time in my life!
If you follow my Blog, you surely know it because I write all about them here.

My husband thought of looking for a job in Canada but then life brought us here. I don’t like the cold so much but then the moderate climate helps me to appreciate my new life in seasons. Kuwait was not that bad, the cost of living is high for Expats but the balance between work and family is so bad, you always work for longer hours. In Germany on the other hand, to think that my daughter will have a better future in this amazing country is too much for me.Quality and balance living is achievable.We don’t live in big cities like Berlin, Hamburg or Munich, but we almost have everything here, within reach. My daughter will start in Kindergarten this coming September and she’ll grow up speaking multiple languages, getting better education, and having the opportunity to explore the best of both worlds as a Third culture kid.
Germans in general are very nice, friendly and hospitable people, ( at least from my own experience) the typical and traditional Bavarians who adore Ruhetag (Sonntag/Sunday) sincerely, my neighbors who are overly kind and all helpful. Our neighborhood which is just a stones’throw away from the Danube is full of simple wonders everyday. My little town here in Bavaria, Ingolstadt is a quaint, rich, lush city full of kaleidoscope and charm. I couldn’t ask for more. ( Well, maybe a branch of Krispy Kreme someday…and Ikea! )
Germany is a beautiful country that welcomed us wholeheartedly. A place where Expats are treated not only as ‘Auslander’( or Foreigners) but giving us a chance to fully integrate into their culture,we felt at home at first sight. The moment I stepped out from the train, all I could say is that it is so green. I breathe in Life.
They say that people migrate with so many “pull” factors, and where the grass is always greener…
Literally & figuratively speaking, Yes, the grass is greener here in Bavaria.
This post was inspired by this week’s WPC Photo Challenge | Reflecting
I am glad that you enjoy the life in Bavaria. Most German I know are also nice and friendly 🙂 But not all of them. There are still some people out there who constantly remind you that you are Ausländer: at the workplace (especially if you aim for a higher position) and in daily life. Just last week, I was shouted in the face by a German woman while talking with my friend in Vietnamese. She shouted that: “You are in Germany. You have to speak German! Or else get out!” 😦
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Got so much inspiration from this post again…. and it fills me with excitement. 🙂 Can’t wait to see it myself and get the taste of that four seasons feeling! Haha. I can’t wait for the update on little Nat 🙂 And oh, I’ll try my best to bring you Krispy Kreme 🙂
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well written and beauitful pictures this may be my favorite of all!
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Europe is so different to other places isn’t it? I have met many many phillipinos these past years who had to leave their kids behind etc – it is such a sad situation
I am glad you like Europe! You could nearly make me want to go back haha 🙂
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Thank you so much Michelle. Happy Mother’s Day to you! Keep bringing sunshine to your loveones!
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Happy Mother’s Day Julz!
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